LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH. LET'S NOT TRIP OVER OUR WORDS.

Before you hit send...
pause. reflect. respond.

THEO helps separated parents pause before emotions take over—turning reactive texts into thoughtful conversations that protect what matters most: your children.

THAT TEXT THAT MAKES OUR BLOOD PRESSURE SPIKE...

BECAUSE PARENTING WITH AN EX...

can be a BEAST.

Vent First

Dump everything — THEO will help organize your thoughts.

Calm is a power move

THEO will help you rewrite before you send — because the right words can change everything.

The product

Say what matters.
Skip the conflict.

THEO detects accusatory language, passive aggression, hostility and communication spikes — then reframes conversations with children at the center, helping parents move from conflict to constructive outcomes.

Reduces emotional escalation
Lowers cognitive load
Creates clarity & accountability
Protects children from conflict

THE VISION

CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING

General AI can rewrite a message. THEO understands the relationship. It understands parenting schedules, recurring points of conflict, children's routines, communication patterns, and the context behind every difficult conversation. Because of that context, it can help prevent conflict—not just respond to it..

WHAT MAKES THEO DIFFERENT

A complete support ecosystem

Everything separated families need — in one calm place.

Built into THEO

Smart scheduling

Predicts conflicts, identifies gaps, and suggests swaps.

School continuity

Reminders that keep both homes in sync with school life.

Bedtime consistency

Track routines across two households.

Packing reminders

Nothing left behind between transitions.

Medication tracking

Shared visibility on doses and timing.

Emotional adjustment notes

Small observations that make a big difference.

Founder story

Built from lived
experience.

I'm a mom who learned firsthand how quickly good intentions can turn into conflict after divorce. I know what it's like to watch a text thread spiral into something that hurts everyone—especially the kids. When communication with my ex broke down, I saw the impact it had—not just on us, but on our children. I built THEO to help other families communicate with more clarity, less conflict, and more compassion. THEO is the tool I wish I'd had during the hardest conversations.

Andrea Alegria, Founder & CEO

Read the full story on Substack
Andrea Alegria, founder of THEO

Beta invitation

Help us build the tool
you wish you had.

We are looking for separated parents to test THEO and help shape the future of co-parenting communication. Your feedback will directly influence how THEO evolves.

Are you currently co-parenting?